Recently, I had a conversation with someone I care for dearly. The pleasantries led to a few “remember that time” chuckles, which led to memory lane walks, which led to a sort of state of affairs quid pro quo type of comment moment. I don’t know when we crossed that line, but we did. Suddenly, that unspoken fine line of speaking about Covid without speaking about Covid was traversed. We picked it up and used it like a jump rope, we representations of each side – the vaccinated and the non. Like 2 people who’ve been waiting for a final shoe to drop for over a year, we sensed the tension, our collective brain wheels turning. Words needed to be chosen with care. Nuances must be ignored. Emotional consideration should be taken. The thing is, could we do this? Right or wrong, the media has separated us into two distinct camps. Daily we are barraged with information that supports “us” and denounces “them.” If two opposing ideologies cannot both be correct, then wherein lies the truth? Cautiously, I ventured out onto the ledge, asking my comrade what cemented the desire against the vaccine. They responded, “Because this is America. I am not opposed to the vaccine. I just don’t want it, especially this mRNA thing. No one knows what it will do in the future. But, in this country, we aren’t forced to take a vaccine we don’t want. That’s not my country. America doesn’t do things like this.” Oh, mi amor, how I wish that were so. I am a proud American, daughter of a WWII veteran, sister of two amazing Vietnam Veterans, mother of a Navy veteran. In my brief one year pageant career of the early 80s, my talent was a dramatic performance of an original piece I wrote on patriotism viewed through the eyes of my grandparents. It garnered me 10th place, despite the fact that I had trouble making eye contact with the audience. Introverts unite. I love this country. I love those who champion and those who protect. What I love most, however, is that we still have so much room for improvement. We can still do so much better. But, our chain cannot be strengthened unless we can see the weakest of our links.